Posts Tagged ‘Experts’

Eliminate Clutter Inside and Out

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

We just de-cluttered our house in order to put it on the market. It feels so good I wonder why we didn’t de-clutter it a long time ago.

Why do we live with so much stuff we don't need? It's not just a house question but a life question too.

Why do we fill our life with so many things that weigh us down? Things we never use. Thoughts that hold us back. Habits that limit us. Distractions that derail us. Negative people that drain us. Fear that paralyzes us. And countless time zappers that sabotage our performance and productivity.

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5 Things to Do Instead of Complain

Monday, March 1st, 2010

I’ve been speaking to a lot of organizations around the country and the one thing I keep hearing from leaders and employees is that complaining is at an all time high. I’m not surprised.

There are two main reasons why we complain.

1. We complain because we feel powerless.

2. We complain because it’s a habit.

The economy has shaken a lot of people’s foundations and we feel powerless which leads to a rise in habitual complaining.

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The Power of Positive Interactions

Monday, January 25th, 2010
!--paging_filter--pJohn Gottman's pioneering research found that marriages are much more likely to succeed when the couple experiences a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions whereas when the ratio approaches 1 to 1, marriages are more likely to end in divorce./p pAdditional research also shows that workgroups with positive to negative interaction ratios greater than 3 to 1 are significantly more productive than teams that do not reach this ratio./p pa href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/positive-interactions-fuel-success-work-homeread more/a/p

5 Tips to Develop Positive Kids

Monday, January 11th, 2010
!--paging_filter--pI have a confession. Despite the fact that I work to develop positive leaders, schools and teams, Irsquo;m not naturally a positive person./p pThe research says itrsquo;s not my fault. Turns out some people are born with a more positive disposition while others are born with more of a negative disposition./p pBut there is hope. The latest research in neuroscience and positive psychology demonstrates that we can mold our brains and ourselves to be more positive, which is great news for me and my children./p pa href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/5-tips-develop-positive-kids-nourish-loveread more/a/p

Positively Contagious

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009
!--paging_filter--pThe Swine Flu is not the only thing you catch at work. Turns out you are just as likely to catch someonersquo;s bad mood and negative attitude./p pYes, the latest research demonstrates what wersquo;ve all known to be true, that emotions are contagious. Researchers call them emotional contagions and they impact our work environments, productivity, teamwork, service and performance in significant and profound ways./p pa href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/positive-energy-contagious-work-environmentsread more/a/p

Play to Win

Monday, October 26th, 2009

!–paging_filter–pThere was a time in most of our lives when we had no fearmdash;that feeling when we jumped from the jungle gym and slammed our little bodies to the ground./p
pPerhaps it was when we went on our first roller coaster, or when we were in high school or college and felt that there was nothing we couldn’t do./p
pNo goal was unattainable. We were an unstoppable force that would think of something and then make it happen./p
pa href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/conquer-fear-achieve-success-jon-gordonread more/a/p

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Your Purpose Must Be Greater Than Your Challenges

Monday, September 28th, 2009

I was recently on a plane to somewhere when Leonard told me about a time when his life was going nowhere.
 
He told me how six months earlier, at the age of 54, he lost his job at a Fortune 500 company. He thought his life and business career were finished. No one is going to hire a 54-year-old sales professional, he frequently told himself. Each day he grew more fearful, pessimistic and depressed.
 
Then one day while taking a walk of sadness along the beach he thought of his 21-year-old son and it occurred to him…
 

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The Positive Success Formula

Monday, September 14th, 2009

"You have more control and influence than you think you do."
 
These were the words of an economist I heard speak as he talked about the economy, the housing market and the recession.
 
He reminded his audience that a lot of people make a lot of money during recessions. He stressed that these are the times when successful companies and successful people gain market share. He shouted when he told the group to look for buying opportunities over the next three years because there will be many.
 

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The No Complaining Rule: Positive Ways to Deal with Negativity

Tuesday, August 25th, 2009

One simple rule is having a big impact.

I didn’t invent the rule. I discovered it—at a small, fast growing, highly successful company that implements simple practices with extraordinary results.

One day I was having lunch with Dwight Cooper, a tall, thin, mild-mannered former basketball player and coach who had spent the last 10 years building and growing a company he co-founded into one of the leading nurse staffing companies in the world.

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Be an Encourager

Monday, August 17th, 2009

With so many people in the world telling us we can’t succeed, we need to hear people telling us we can.

I remember my high school English teacher telling me not to apply to Cornell University because they wouldn’t accept me and even if they did I wouldn’t be able to do the work. (It’s funny that I’m a writer now).

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