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5 Tips to Develop Positive Kids

Monday, January 11th, 2010
!--paging_filter--pI have a confession. Despite the fact that I work to develop positive leaders, schools and teams, Irsquo;m not naturally a positive person./p pThe research says itrsquo;s not my fault. Turns out some people are born with a more positive disposition while others are born with more of a negative disposition./p pBut there is hope. The latest research in neuroscience and positive psychology demonstrates that we can mold our brains and ourselves to be more positive, which is great news for me and my children./p pa href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/5-tips-develop-positive-kids-nourish-loveread more/a/p

To Whom Much Is Given

Monday, November 9th, 2009

!–paging_filter–pLeigh Anne Tuohy is just like any other mom in Memphis, Tennessee…if those moms have Sandra Bullock portraying them in a major motion picture opening this month.nbsp; /p
p a href=http://www.guideposts.com/story/blind-side-michael-oher-football target=_blankemThe Blind Side/em/a tells the story of how the Tuohy family adopted homeless African American teenager Michael Oher, who became a football prodigy and a first-round draft pick by the Baltimore Ravens.nbsp; /p
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The Power of Hope

Saturday, December 6th, 2008

Gazing at my haggard visage in the bedroom mirror that morning in 1991, I didn’t know which was worse—the way I felt or the way I looked.

In a sense they were one and the same, each a reflection of the other. I had just undergone a punishing round of chemotherapy following a double mastectomy for breast cancer, and doctors had warned me that I would probably have to undergo a second round.

I looked decades older than my 33 years. My skin sagged and my face was ashen. Dark circles shadowed my sunken eyes.

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One Potato, Two Potato

Monday, November 10th, 2008

Just after relocating to a new town, my father was let go from his job as a welder.

Dad diligently searched for work, and Mom tried to scrape together meals for my brother, sister and me.

Soon my parents had spent all their savings. When things got desperate, a nearby farmer offered us potatoes from his field. We ate potatoes three times a day: fried for breakfast, baked for lunch and mashed for dinner.

Several weeks passed and Dad was still unemployed. Mealtimes grew quiet and morose.

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Kicked the Habit

Monday, November 10th, 2008

Accompanied by my four-year-old son, Eric, I was on my way to the store to buy a pack of cigarettes.

I knew I shouldn’t be doing this. I was going through a rough time financially and could barely make ends meet, especially for bad habits such as cigarette smoking.

Still, I’d been a smoker for 13 years and could not stop.

As I drove into the store’s parking lot, on impulse I turned to my son and blurted out, "Oh, Eric, do something to make me quit smoking!"

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This Is a Precious Thing

Monday, November 10th, 2008

Grandma Butter was our next-door neighbor. The immigrant widow of a Polish baker, she had come to California because of the warm climate, because her ailing brother lived there, and probably, to be frank, because there was nowhere else for her to go. She lived in a Quonset hut next door to our Quonset hut, near the hospital where my doctor husband was doing his residency. But these were temporary lodgings for us, and I didn't see any need to become Grandma Butter's great friend.

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A Perfect Match

Wednesday, October 29th, 2008

I put up my new 1994 calendar in the kitchen, feeling like I'd finally gotten my life back on track. The past year since my divorce had been a long, hard struggle, but my three boys and I had adjusted to our single-mom household.

My job at a furniture factory kept food on the table and paid the bills. And I'd started going to church again with my mom. I couldn't quite believe as she did that God had a deep, personal interest in our lives—I figured he had more important things to worry about than me—but I definitely found comfort in being closer to him.

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Trouble at the Inn

Monday, October 27th, 2008

!–paging_filter–pFor years now, whenever Christmas pageants are talked about in a certain little town in the Midwest, someone is sure to mention the name of Wallace Purling. /p
pWally’s performance in one annual production of the Nativity play has slipped into the realm of legend. But the old-timers who were in the audience that night never tire of recalling exactly what happened./p
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It Takes a Stand

Friday, October 24th, 2008

"Mom," my four-year-old daughter, Alex, said on that gray and unpromising January afternoon, "I want to build a lemonade stand."

Alex and I were on the stem cell transplant ward of the University of Connecticut Health Center in Farmington, Connecticut. As I stood looking out the window at the frozen landscape, I was trying to imagine how all of those bare hopeless trees would look again covered with green.

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True Manhood

Friday, October 24th, 2008

!–paging_filter–pstrong1. Recognize the quot;three lies of false masculinity.quot; /strongbr /Athletic ability, sexual conquest and economic success are false measurements of manhood./p
pstrong2. Allow yourself to love and be loved. /strongbr /Build and value relationships./p
pstrong3. Accept responsibility, lead courageously and enact justice on behalf of others. /strongbr /Practice the concepts of empathy, inclusion and integrity./p
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